A one-day creative and mindset experience for people who’ve spent so long holding everything together that they’ve quietly disappeared into the background of their own lives.
It rarely happens all at once. Most people don’t wake up one day thinking, “I’ve lost myself.” It’s usually much quieter than that.
You stop saying what you really want.
You make yourself smaller in conversations.
You settle for “that’ll do” instead of asking for more.
You become very good at coping, carrying on and keeping everything moving.
And somewhere along the way, you lose a bit of yourself in the process.
Not in a dramatic, tear-your-life-apart kind of way, but in the small moments where you notice how often you default, minimise yourself, or talk yourself out of what you actually want. Those moments seem insignificant, but over time they shape how you experience your whole life.
And the shoes?
You’ll transform your own pair of shoes using metallic foiling and creative techniques, but this isn’t really about crafts.
The shoes are simply the anchor for the day - a visible reminder that you chose to stop shrinking yourself for a while and reconnect with who you are underneath all the responsibility, pressure and “just getting on with it.”

During the day you’ll experience:
Honest conversations and reflection around where you’ve been settling or making yourself smaller
Mindset and identity work designed to help you reconnect with yourself
Creativity and self-expression without pressure or perfection
Guided exercises to help you step back into your own life more fully
The transformation of your own shoes into something bold and personal
You'll leave with:
your Sassy Shoes
fresh perspective
renewed energy
and a stronger connection to yourself
Come with someone who instantly gets it and you’ll both receive a special Funky Diva bonus on the day, because some shifts feel easier when they’re witnessed by someone safe.
Tickets
Founder Ticket Offer: £87
Use code FOUNDER at checkout
Only 6 available!
Standard Ticket:
£127
Only 10 places available in total!
Here's what you get:
Welcome tea/coffee
Morning workshop
Lunch
Sassy shoes practical transformation
The Notts Pride Community Hub is located on the first floor of Roden House.
Full address:
Notts Pride Hub, Unit F5
Roden House
Roden Street
Sneinton
Nottingham, NG3 1JH
Access to the first floor is available via lift or stairs.
The venue is approx. 25-30 mins walk from Nottingham train station or taxi/Uber, which would only be about 5–10 minutes depending on traffic
There is a small pay to park car park on Roden St opposite the venue. £1 per hour or £5 all day – tariff applies to Blue Badge holders
Tea/coffee/biscuits/fruit will be provided. Plus a light lunch of picky bits/sandwiches. If you have any special requirements please bring what you need.
The Hub is an LGBTQ+ inclusive space. All users must respect the dignity, identity and safety of others. Any form of discriminatory, abusive or inappropriate behaviour will result in immediate removal from the space and cancellation of the booking without a refund.
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